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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 27.06.2025 00:29

How does one succeed in life?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Does not procrastinate.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Ask yourself:

What I need from you?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Procrastinates a lot.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

That's it for today.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What is the opposite personality type of someone with ASPD (antisocial personality disorder)?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Do not set goals—set systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.